How to say "NO"?

In today's topic, we are going to talk about "How to say NO?". We all have been through this thing
so many times, We almost ended up in saying yes than no. So why this happens to us all of the time

( you might be thinking of it). Let me make you clear that most of us reading this would have gone through this and regretting afterward that why I was not able to say "NO".

So let's learn "How To Say No"

We often tend to say Yes instead of No, on the basis of how another person will think. We say yes because we fear what another person will think. It is more damaging than saying NO at that point.
It get hard for some of us to say "No" where the others are able to say it with ease.

Let's take the example of a person who always says "YES" to everything or anything asked him like

•  Will you lend me some money? (he knows that I'm a clever guy and not going to return his money on time).
• Let's go and chill outside ( even his work is pending but still goes with them).
• What are you doing? Can you help me in this work? (Without being thinking of anything else he says yes, let's do your work first)
• What are your future plans or what are you going to do now? ( he know that the other person doesn't share his/her  secrets, goals, plans with them but still tells them everything about himself).
• Believes in others very easily.

Why some people aren't able to say "NO"

• As much as I believe they care too much for others' feelings.
• They prioritize others over themselves.
• They seriously need to have a check on how does this world works.
• While saying "Yes", they get misunderstood between Exploitation and opportunity.
• They get controlled by others' influence.

What they should do?

• Prioritize your work first.
• If you're a Yes person then create a small world where your yes's don't lead to your exploitation
• Choose a world( atmosphere, where yes works in addition to your growth).
• Listen to your conscious more carefully and say no whenever required.
• Stop thinking about how others are going to feel.

I know this might feel rude to someone or some might say that " I am spreading evil "

But first things first " We all need to know how this world works". And I'm not supporting to not help anyone, or We should deny when someone needs our help. I just want to create a thin line between 

"Saying yes to exploitation and  Saying Yes to The opportunities". So choose wisely between a YES and a NO.

We all should focus on creating a world where saying yes doesn't have any consequences. It is necessary to have a world to like this else we will always live in fear. Because Yes is a door and No is a wall. So living in a no world is as same as living behind the walls.

So, guys, this was all I wanted to convey, that if saying yes feels like a problem to you, so try building a small world where you'll enjoy saying "yes".

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